Into Africa

This blog is a unique treat for you readers. We have a special guest writer who is well known to many of you either in person or by reputation as...My Wife. Enjoy her impressions of her visit to the Dark Continent - duh, duh, duh, duuuuuuh!!!!

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Hello Everyone!

I just thought I would write some of my initial impressions of Africa, while the culture shock is fresh and everything is new and befuddling.

Perhaps the most interesting experience was to see how life changes as you move deeper and deeper into the country and out from the cities. Landing in Nairobi was a normal experience: the airport was big and our luggage was slow in coming. I had met a young Kenyan student studying in Austin, TX, on the plane, and he was kind enough to ensure that I got my luggage without trouble. He even called Jeevan to make sure I had made it to Kisumu alive and well. Once I made my way from the international wing of the Nairobi airport and crossed the street (without being run over by a taxi), I could already see a big change. The local part of the airport is frequented by mostly Kenyans and many fewer mizungu (white folk). There were only two mizungu on my flight to Kisumu, and it got me thinking that this is an experience every white person should have. Being absolutely "other" and foreign (more so for me as a blonde, white dwarf) is an intensely bizarre experience; not a bad one, just bizarre. I definitely can understand what Franz Fanon was feeling when he first went to Paris; it is an experience that is quite perturbing to your self-identity.

When I landed in Kisumu, it was a rather small airport at which the baggage claim consists of a sign "wait here for luggage." You are to huddle together like pigeons and wait until they offload the bags and push them to a cart over to you. Actually, it's the most efficient baggage claim I have ever been through! After retrieving my bag, Jeevan and Chacha, a clinic staff member, drove me back to Matoso. However, because it is a six-hour journey and because it is a 40-minute drive to Migori (the largest town near Matoso), we had to stop and do many errands along the way. I was grumpy and tired, but you do what you have to do, I suppose. My flight had arrived around 8am, but with the errands and such we did not reach Matoso until 6pm.

The road to Matoso is the most interesting thing I have ever been on. There is a stretch outside of Kisumu that I think could give children brain damage if they were to experience the ride too often. For 40 minutes or so (maybe it was only 10, but I swear it was longer), the road was made up of asphalt that had once been a lovely road but that had been ruined in damaging rains. It had broken into plum-sized bits and has remained such. The problem is that there is no avoiding them...that's the road! Other than that crazy stretch, it was paved roads until Migori, which would have been fine if there weren't goats, cows, people, and bicycles to constantly avoid. I am very glad I do not have to navigate in a place like this. Apparently, bikes are considered pedestrians, and pedestrians do not have the right of way. If there is a bike coming and you want to turn, you turn: they had better get out of the way. And, other people's cows and goats are expendable. Chickens more so. And, wild birds and other creatures may be stalked and chased down within inches of their lives - if they're lucky.

One of our errands was to stop in Migori so Chacha could gather the Lalmba mail and I'm not sure what else. In any case, we parked the car (which is a Land Cruiser ambulance, by the way) "downtown", the gathering place and a strip of huts masquerading as businesses. I was almost comatose by this point. Jeevan said I had been so deeply asleep before that when they stopped in Migori, he had had to stop my head from slamming into the dashboard - no shoulder belts here, just lap. I don't know if I believe him, but we stayed in the car. The villagers were very curious and made it a point to ensure that their paths crossed by the car. They would pass by and give a sideways glance, and shortly after, I would hear the word "mizungu". While Jeevan is technically a mizungu as far as being a foreigner, he is Indian, and people in larger metropoli like Migori don't seem to disturbed because there is a somewhat large number of Indians residing in Kenya (yay British colonialism). I, however, attract attention everywhere, even if I am just sitting in a car...my blonde hair is like the beacon of a lighthouse, saying, "mizungu this way, mizungu this way."

We finally arrived in Matoso after our trip to Kenyan Disneyland. That's how I like to think of Migori because in one of the hotels - what they call restaurants - there is a giant coke bottle on the terrace. When I say giant, I mean giant. I'm not sure if it's inflatable of plastic, but it's about 10-12 feet tall and maybe 4-5 feet in diameter. Maybe this was jetlag talking, but I swear it was there. I remember asking Jeevan why it was there, and he said, "why not?" I have to say, it did remind me a bit of that weird film "The Gods Must be Crazy", for those of you who have seen it, you'll know what I'm talking about....Ok, Matoso.

We arrive in Matoso, and I made the long trek to Jeevan's hut. Not that long in retrospect, but after 38 hours of straight travel in three calendar days over many time zones (how does that mess with your head?), I was on my last legs. I was then treated to a nice, short, cold shower. They do have solar-heated shower bags, but they were cold - ok, room temperature - by the time I got to them (no sun). It was a nice shower anyway. Then we ate the spaghetti that Joyce, the Lalmba volunteer's (Jeevan's) cook, made. Not bad considering they have probably never had such food. I don't remember much after that...something, something, something...collapse in bed.

Wake up with splitting head. Have to run to latrine ("choo") 100 yards away. Yay! Walking back...legs feel wobbly. Head hurts. Crawl in bed. Jeevan gives me ibuprofen. Feel yucky, stomach hurts. Jeevan gives me anti-nausea pills. Pray to God to make me sleep. Maybe need something to eat. Jeevan brings cheese. Open cheese. Puke at sight of cheese. Have to run and puke in bushes. Puke. Puke. Puke. Crawl back in bed. Pray to God to make me sleep. Sleep. Jeevan wakes me some time. "Some of the staff has been working for two days for a welcoming party for you. You have to come later. You have to dig deep, I'm sorry." Nod okay. Back to sleep. Jeevan wakes me at 4pm. Feel much better. Yay!

I don't know what was wrong with me, but a day of sleep did me well. When Jeevan woke me up at 4pm, we met Joseph, who works with Jeevan at the HIV/TB part of the clinic (the PSC). Joseph took us to the Sea Lodge, which is the local hotel/gathering place. As we walked through "downtown" Matoso, I drew wide eyes and dropped jaws. The word mizungu was mumbled several times, especially by the children who are not shy, and Jeevan said hello. They nervously responded and kept watching as we walked on. Nancy, who is the counselor at PSC, lives at Sea Lodge had prepared a special meal. I was nervous given my throwing up/bathroom incident earlier; I didn't want to offend anyone by not eating...especially since it was beef stew, which is expensive to make and for special occasions. Luckily, I really seemed fine. I ate my beef stew, my grits, my sukuma (kale or greens of some sort), and rice. It was quite yummy. I had sprite and beer too. Then we danced and had a good time. I used many of the same moves Gavyn has seen many times in the department. They thought it was great that a mizungu would let loose and dance so soon to music they don't know. But we all laughed and danced a little past dark (while we didn't have far to go, Joseph lives around the lake a bit, and it's best to get home before too late). Then, before we left, they wanted us to all sit down. Nancy started by saying that they were so happy that I came even though I was not feeling well and that I was so accepting of an invitation of people I did not know. They were happy that I was there with my smiling face and eating their food. Then she said that Jeevan is not like other mizungus and that he is their friend and that they are so happy to have him and that I must be like him too. That made me feel nice. Then Sammy talked and said similar things. Then, it was Joseph's turn. Joseph and Jeevan have really become friends, doing yoga together after work, etc. Joseph wanted me to know that Jeevan really is his friend and that he is a good person. I could tell that they were very sincere about these things, and I was grateful to be part of the moment. Then Jeevan said his piece, and I said mine. I thanked them for welcoming me so openly and kindly. Then we went home. That is perhaps the most generously I have ever been welcomed by strangers.

Since that was Friday, the clinic was closed over the weekend, but since most of the staff live in town or on the compound, several people stopped by to meet Amy Jeevan (that's how you know you are married.. you add the man's name to your name). Then, when they found out I was a professor, they were thrilled that Jeevan has a "clever" wife, and they said I am Professor Amy Jeevan. My title sounds better than Jeevan's: he's just Dr. Jeevan. Word had obviously spread about Amy Jeevan's presence since by Sunday I had met quite a few people.

On Monday I met the rest of the staff and was welcomed again during the "greeting". The clinic opens at 8:30, but everyone arrives around 8am to greet each other and for the morning prayer. It is a Christian prayer, but sung in the Luo language. It was beautiful, even though I have no idea what was going on. I think the idea of a greeting is lovely and that it will hopefully not be lost with "progress". The community is extremely connected here, and it made me melancholic for something we do not have easily in our fast-paced life in the US. While Dr. Jeevan was working, Professor Amy Jeevan spent the rest of the morning on Monday talking with Joyce about her family and helping her cook as much as she would allow. The clinic closed early on Monday because it was Christmas Eve, and Nancy stopped by to say hello to her "new friend". I had brought pictures for Jeevan, but I showed them to Nancy and Joyce. We had also showed them to Joseph and some others over the weekend. I have never seen people be so honestly interested in photos. It took a long time to look at 20 photos. They wanted to know why I was doing such and such and where we were... then, they would just look and study the photo. It's so nice to see people slow down and really experience things. It's a lesson for me.

The rest of the week we have pretty much alone. Christmas was a holiday, of course, as is today, the 26th. I showed myself to be a good mizungu and cooked Jeevan a nice meal. For breakfast we had pancakes. And, he requested chicken curry, potato curry (or gobiless "aloo gobi" - no cauliflower available), and chapati. I also made a vanilla pie with meringue topping. Not bad for no electricity! I think I worked all the calories off whipping the egg whites by hand. I cooked all day and treated myself to a gin and tonic (they have some booze here for special occasions). I must say, Martha Stewart would be proud of Professor Amy Jeevan. No measuring cups, no electricity, different ingredients...and everything turned out well! It's nice to know that when the apocalypse comes or when the U.S. finally uses up all our non-renewable resources, I can survive. And, as Jeevan said, he will survive as long as I will. One of the guards stopped by as well as the driver, Daniel, who will take us on safari. As he was leaving, he said my food smelled good and congratulated Jeevan on having a wife who can cook. That is the real Kenyan test for a woman: can she cook? I seem to have passed several tests: Nancy said I am beautiful; Joyce said I am clever (i.e. smart); Daniel said I can cook. Dr. Jeevan can keep me. Yay!

The 27th and 28th are also public holidays this year because of the elections on the 27th. Because people often work far away from their home village (as far as Nairobi), they must find transportation back to their village to vote, which is very important to them. It is quiet here this week then. But, Jeevan and I leave on safari on Saturday, and we will be gone for six days. If I don't get eaten by a lion, I'm sure I'll have more to write and photos to post when I return to the U.S.

Now that I have written a novella and most of you have long since given up, I will sign off for now. Hopefully, I will have much more interesting National Geographic-esque things to write next time. Less anthropology/sociology, more wild life discovery.

Hope you all had a Merry Christmas!

Professor Amy Jeevan